Now that 3 years has gone by since the first time that I realized that my ex-wife and my former busines partner were sleeping together in my house, and since I have been through HELL to protect my kids, my life, my finances, and my sanity, I recently found out that they are living together. Up until recently,they have been adamantly denying an affair/relationship so that she would not have to lie about it to her family and children.

Now that I KNOW that they are what can I do retroactively about this? I have dismissed an alienation of affection case and have settled on te divorce including effective full custody.

I have NO support from her
I am constantly having them anonymously contact my employers lying about crap
The two of them keep making vieled threats about going after me on some fabricated criminal charge

What can I do to get these people to leave me and my family alone if there is nothing apparent, no tresspass, no communication, no nothing. All of it is clandestine.

Help me.

Unles and until you can bring some documentation of such harassment, either directly or to third parties like your employer, there is little for a court to evaluate for a restraining order or for police to evaluate for criminal charges like harassment.

Just out of curiousity, why the heck would your employer be listening to anything coming from someone who continually remains anonymous? (Inquiring courts will want to know.)

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Have you browsed through the information in LawInfo's Free Legal Resource Center to learn more about your issue yet? See: http://www.lawinfo.com/consumer.html and http://resources.lawinfo.com/en/index.html. You can certainly try to speak to a lawyer to determine what legal options may be available. In the meantime, you may be able to learn more on your own. Search the "Free Legal Resources" tab, or browse the Consumer Resources. Good luck.

My divorce was final July 2009. I filed all the paperwork. He was served with the papers but did not appear in court the day the divorce was granted. Now, we are scheduled to appear in Child Support Court and now he is saying that I lied about the dates on the divorces papers. I want to know can he create an issue with our divorce? We both agreed on a date, he paid half the cost of the fees to file. He keeps referring to No statute of Limitations and failure. I know that this is just his way of bullying me out of following thru with Child Support.

Have you browsed through the information in LawInfo's Free Legal Resource Center to learn more about your issue yet? See: http://www.lawinfo.com/consumer.html and http://resources.lawinfo.com/en/index.html. You can certainly try to speak to a lawyer to determine what legal options may be available. In the meantime, you may be able to learn more on your own. Search the "Free Legal Resources" tab, or browse the Consumer Resources. Good luck.

Perhaps, my question was not clear. My ex-husband and I agreed on a date in order for us to go forward with our divorce. Now, he is threatening to take action to say that I perjured myself on the divorce papers. Can he do that? Its been almost 2 since the divorce was final.

He can try to, but a judge may not hear it based on it being outside the appeal time or statute of limitations.