i'm 13 and i live in indiana. i live with my dad, and i can't stand it. i'd rather live with my mom. does anybody know what age you have to be to have a say in which parent you want to live with? whether it involves bringing your parents to court. i'll be turning 14 in march.

You do not get to decide. You mom and dad would have to agree or your mom would have to petition the court to change custody.