Need Help and I am desperate!
My husband went through a long dramatic divorce almost 2 years ago...
I am now trying to help him fix what he messed up! and now it is soo hard! Considering he was so naive and didn't have a lawyer, his ex wife was able to screw him so bad. She made him get supervised visitations, for no reason. She claimed that it was because my husband had little interaction with their son, which wasn't true, she just wanted to make things difficult on him in hopes that he would want to come back to her. She knew that my husband was having financial trouble, and in the middle of the divorce she packs up the kids and moves over 3 hours away with her parents. My husband would frequently ask her for current pictures of his kids, and she would email them to him... If he wanted to see his kids he had to do it supervised and pay for it! which she knew he financially couldnt do. So he went almost 2 years without seeing his son, but he never stopped caring about him or asking for current pictures. So, we started a program this past November that would be supervised, well after the first meeting it fell through... so then on short notice, her mother watched during the visitation with his kids, then my husband had to beg her to let him have unsupervised, she said that they could come to an agreement, well whenever he made a suggestion, she would find some way to shoot it down, and use some psychology BS to explain why it wasnt good enough.
My husband just wants to see his kids, and his son loves spending time with his father and being with him. He is having no problems understanding who his father is. But since she came up with this visitation schedule of her own, she is in complete control of everything!! and it is hurting us financially, and what are we supposed to do? He is paying child support, but is making less than what it was based off of, and in order to see his kids we have to follow her schedule and guidelines, and do all the driving.. my husband is only aloud a maximum of 5 hours per Saturday and Sunday... which isnt very fair.. there is soo much to our story, but we want to get it revised and modified so that way its not under her terms. My husband is not allowed overnight visits with his children, she said that he should wait another year for that, and its all under her terms! that is what gets me!
I need legal HELP to HELP this mess my husband was so naive in making! here is a little history about her...
She is 33 years old and my husband is 23, he was 17 when they got married and she was 27 and already been divorced with 2 children. What is a 27 year old woman doing with a 17 year old boy??? that is crazy in itself, 2nd, she had never even met my husband before they got married, she met him online in a chat room and brought him into her bed and married him within 2 days of them meeting.... how is this normal? not to mention her brother is convicted sex offender.
I have so much anger and stress, and I really need legal help. I need justice to be served for my husband, because I cannot stand this woman running our lives anymore. My husband wants to have more rights with his kids, and he deserves that! We need help in fixing what he was so naive about. And we do not have a lot of money. Please, I need advice and help!
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