I have 3 kids we have joint custody my boyfriend is a registerd sex offender can the judge order me to not see him even when my kids are not with me???

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The court can't dictate who you see when the kids aren't around. However, the court absolutely CAN order that any time that you spend with the kids be SUPERVISED to ensure that you are not exposing them to your BF.

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