i hope i'm at the right place...but i need someone's answer to this question thats eating me my babies mom get super depressed during and after giving birth...after 4 months of her overly religious family hating on me because i didnt goto her church she left me...because she had to choose her family or me...in her religion women are encouraged to have babies....so i almost think maybe she got what she wanted and now ditched me...everything really was great...thing is when i kept calling to talk about logan...it scared her? shes left state...i found out after a week of calling trying to find out how hes doing after his shots.....i dont know where my baby is. hes six months old...she said he cant stay over night with me because shes still feeding.

I don't think there is a kidnapping unless one parent has some sort of a temparary custody agreement or a divorce or legal separation would give one parent or the other physical custody of the child. There is no such thing as 'joint custody' so someone has to have physical custody. If there are no agreements that would be the person who has the child currently.

I could be wrong but as i recall that's correct in the state i live in.

This poster's question was posted one year ago, it doesn't appear that the OP has been back, so it's doubtful that they will see your reply.

BTW- yes, there can be a thing of true "joint custody" where neither parent has exclusive physical custody.