Can the mother of my son remove my last name from the birth certificate without my permission? How do I have my last name put back on the certificate?

By herself, no. Under certain circumstances, such as if she can convince a judge that such a change is in the child's best interest, or, if paternity is established to someone else and the court orders the birth certificate changed to reflect this.

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