What documentation or evidence is there of the "many other acts"? Are there witnesses other than you and the mother? If police didn't find probable cause to make an arrest or file a capias (request for warrant), then the fact that a judge later issued a restraining order won't change that. The burden of proof is MUCH lower to get a restraining order than for the "probable cause" needed for arrest, and many many times lower than needed for a criminal conviction ("beyond a reasonable doubt").
If there is some history of similar or other troubling acts, especially if the child has been involved in any of them, mom needs to be seeking to modify custody, asking for visitation to be supervised in light of dad's willingness to put the child in the middle of things like this (because again, the burden of proof to get that change ordered isn't anywhere near the level needed for an arrest).
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