I have a 5 year old and her father does not always stick to the visitation arrangement. He usually gets her on Tuesday but sometimes he does not get her as he is suppose to. My fiance feels that I just should not make other arrangements with him in regards to seeing her. For example he called one monday and asked if he could get her monday instead of tuesday because he had a meeting to attend on tuesday and he did not know what time he would be finished with the meeting. My fiance feels as if since he hasn't been consistant I should not work with him. He feels that I should just say no because he feels that my ex can do whatever he wants. My daughter loves her father dearly and she is always excited to see him. Do you think I should withhold him from seeing her just because at times he is not consistant with getting her on his scheduled day?

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