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Originally Posted by Teeker
If i had control to "run up" a tab for 26k I would'nt have one at all.
children were born in the early 80's
but ya - you're just as confused as I am. If I paid my CS in full - and missed some in the early years? Doesn't add up. I've been paying on the arrears for 2yrs now so you can imagine what the original was.
Who is getting that money? Where are my receipts? What am I paying? How can I get this lowered. They never got it in the first place (kids told me - they were led to believe I paid nothing until I showed them all my check stubs with the AWD for all those years, of course they WERE'NT surprised. )
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I am confused because you are contradicting yourself. Example: "If I paid my CS in full" is followed by
"Missed some in the early years". Have you always paid your child support? If your ex wasn't receiving it, why didn't she notify the court and ask for the money?
Child support payments, especially those automatically deducted, would be on record with the court. Is your ex stating she never received the money? Or did you, at some point, stop paying ( I believe that's what you said happened when you began working for yourself). You do not get an itemized list of what the money is spent on----food clothing, shelter, utilities, medical bills, etc. The custodial parent, I presume, paid 100% of those costs in those times you were, for whatever reason, unable to pay. Therefore, she/he is entitled to be repaid. Also some states collect and pay themselves back for those times where the custodial parent has to go on public assistance.
Is your ex receiving your money?