I am a single Mom own a private home. My daughter 22 and boyfriend 23 live with me and refuse to abide by house rules. I have asked them to move but they have said its to expensive for them to leave. What it really is that the situation is very comfortable here.

They come and go as they please have damaged the house refuse to keep up with cleaning. Will not compromise on going half on utilities etc. My daughter has taken the summer off and lived on unemployment check. Rather then work a full time job.
Because of their refusal to try and work things out I feel I need to evict them.
But the law seems to be on the side of the tenant or boarders. I need help on how to deal with these two.

If you don't want to go the formal eviction route, make it uncomfortable for them. Otherwise, you may want to speak with an attorney to discuss the easiest way to do this. You can locate one through the attorney locator on Lawinfo's home page at http://www.lawinfo.com/. Some do offer free consultations.

i am in the same boat as u are my son 20 is very disrespectful towards me wont go get a job because he is not clean and still exspects me to sopport him he cant follow house rules and lies to me all the time told him he should just move out we fight everyday but nothing is getting resolved i am very frustrated

Take your self out to eat often and keep bread and water on hand. Lazy adult children are like stray cats, as long as they are fed and comfortable you will never be rid of them. Since they are adults, you can't be charged with neglect for not providing such for them.

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